The purpose of this website is to help the unmarried (whether singles or teens) deal with their addiction to pornography. I believe the unmarried who are addicted to porn but are waiting until they are married for sex are facing a very different battle with pornography than those who are married. I am a single guy who God has allowed to overcome this terrible addiction, and honestly every christian resource I found on the subject of porn was written by married people to help married people overcome this addiction, and I found those resources caused more struggle than help. I apologies upfront for being argumentative or frustrated.
The purpose of this part of the website is to help counselors know how to council those who are overcoming this addiction. It took my pastor around 90 days to figure out what not to say to me. As young people come to you for help with this addiction it is my hope reading the stuff in this section will allow you to figure out what to avoid saying or the stuff to focus on saying to help them.
My heart brakes for my peers (the unmarried) who are struggling with this addiction, and everything I write here is for their benefit. If what I write sounds like I am frustrated, it is because I am heart broken. I hate this addiction. I have hated it almost since I started to masturbate. I ask for your forgiveness if anything I say in this part of the website comes off as insulting, rude, or argumentative, just know everything was written under intense emotional strain, and if you can say these things with more tact than me, please let me know.