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Counselor's Corner

The purpose of this website is to help the unmarried (whether singles or teens) deal with their addiction to pornography. I believe the unmarried who are addicted to porn but are waiting until they are married for sex are facing a very different battle with pornography than those who are married. I am a single guy who God has allowed to overcome this terrible addiction, and honestly every christian resource I found on the subject of porn was written by married people to help married people overcome this addiction, and I found those resources caused more struggle than help. I apologies upfront for being argumentative or frustrated.

The purpose of this part of the website is to help counselors know how to council those who are overcoming this addiction. It took my pastor around 90 days to figure out what not to say to me. As young people come to you for help with this addiction it is my hope reading the stuff in this section will allow you to figure out what to avoid saying or the stuff to focus on saying to help them.

My heart brakes for my peers (the unmarried) who are struggling with this addiction, and everything I write here is for their benefit. If what I write sounds like I am frustrated, it is because I am heart broken. I hate this addiction. I have hated it almost since I started to masturbate. I ask for your forgiveness if anything I say in this part of the website comes off as insulting, rude, or argumentative, just know everything was written under intense emotional strain, and if you can say these things with more tact than me, please let me know.


Engineer and Operator
Repentance and the councilors role
More than an accountability partner
Rosetta Stone Between Councilors and unmarried
I Think My Porn Addiction Was Inevitable
Stumblingblock
Please Stop
The Right Question
Sex vs Intimacy
The Sermon I Don't Understand

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  • Home
    • Teens Are Welcome Too
    • Is there a need for this website?
    • Q&A
  • My Story
    • Year 1
    • Year 2
    • Year 3
    • Year 4
    • 5 Misconceptions that kept me addicted to porn
  • Start Here
    • Beating Porn Step 1 >
      • Bible Supporting Step 1
    • Beating Porn Step 2 >
      • Bible Supporting Step 2
    • Applying Steps 1 and 2
    • Beating Porn Step 3 >
      • Bible Supporting Step 3
  • Battling Porn
    • Battling Porn Page 2 >
      • Links That May Help
      • Book Suggestions >
        • Letter To Marcie Aiken
      • The Problem With Seduction
      • The Devil Can't Blackmail Me
      • Withdrawal Symptoms
      • C.S. Lewis on Masturbation
      • What If?
      • Mercy, Grace, and Porn
      • Porn Wants to Hide Your Problems
      • Olympic No Fap Challenge
      • Emotional Affair Every Single's Goal
    • Siege Warfare
    • Rethinking Fantasy
    • Self Worth, Sex, and Pride
    • What Does A Biblically Healthy Libido Look Like for a Single
    • Get Rid of Envy and Covetousness!
    • Porn Bandage Not Bondage
    • More than Stopping
    • Affection
    • Liberty
    • Most Important Characteristic of an Accountability Partner
  • The Church and You
    • Your Relational Needs
    • Who Should Meet Your Relational Needs
    • What is Your Spiritual Gift
    • Finding a Mentor
    • The Church and Addiction Recovery
    • Becoming A Mentor
  • Porn addiction and dating
    • The Greatest Joy In This Life
    • Right and Wrong
    • Courtship
    • Biblical Purpose of Dating
    • Finding the 1
    • Purity
    • Before You Date
  • Counselor's Corner
    • Councelor corner Page 2 >
      • Stumblingblock
      • More than an Accountability Partner
      • Please Stop
      • The Sermon I Dont Understand
      • Sex vs Intimacy
    • Engineer and Operator
    • Repentance and the Counsilors Role
    • Rosetta Stone Between Councilors and Unmarried
    • I Think My Porn Addiction Was Inevitable
    • The Right Question
  • Contact